Monday, October 25, 2010

13 days of Halloween...part 1

I was especially excited to do the "13 days of Halloween" this year because I wanted to make sure I made time for fun things with Zoey and Jackson so that they wouldn't feel "left out" of all the time I spend caring for their new brother Eli. This is what we have been up to this past week...just easy, short, fun activities to help them get excited for Halloween!  
Each day we take a tag off of our Halloween tree and get to do the activity attached to that day.
Day 1) Making Halloween sugar cookies at Grandma's house...more frosting than cookie.
Day 2) Paper bag monsters
Day 3) Cheesecloth Ghost
Day 4) Movie night with the kids (Toy Story 2)

 Day 5) Gray family Halloween party, the kids dressed up, we had the traditional Halloween meal (i made the veggie tray), pinata and lots of fun!






Day 6) Decorate mini Pumpkins


Day 7) Pumpkin and Ghost grilled cheese Sandwiches!

We'll keep you posted on what we're up to this last week of Halloween!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Newborn Pictures





A lot of pictures, very few words....
He's precious!

My sister-in-law Taraleigh helped with these fantastic shots.








Thursday, October 7, 2010

While Nursing....

It's been over a week, and we are adjusting to our new family and new schedule pretty well. I have had a lot of help which has been priceless. However, Jackson has figured out that I am glued to my chair for half an hour while I nurse Eli throughout the day, and he chooses this time to reek havoc while dragging his little sister Zoey into the mix. When he is found after a nursing session his words are usually "Mommy, don't look" or "Zoey did it!"

Monday was one of those days that if I told all that had happened it would be hard to believe it was all in one day! It started off with me nursing Eli, Jackson finding a marker, and a wonderfully colored white down comforter on my bed, ruined baby announcements, and messes galor! I have had my cups used to transfer toilet water into the bathroom sinks and drench everything in between, storage boxes unloaded of all their fill, and "mystery soups" created in the kitchen sink with things that aren't supposed to get wet! All I can say is that I am glad I start my day with prayer because it's the only way to get me through these frustrating times when I feel pulled in all directions. By the end of the day (and I mean 7pm- no joke!) I feel worked into the ground trying to keep up with it all.

But I have to say that despite the chaotic moments, it is all worth it. The rewards of having Eli join our family are abundant. We have many sweet moments with the kids wanting to display their affection and talk to Eli and tell him all about their toys or their day. It's truly wonderful having him in our home!

Friday, October 1, 2010

Eli Fisher Beutler




Sunday, September 26th marked the exciting arrival of Eli Fisher Beutler. He was 8 lbs. 3 oz. and 20 inches long. It was so fun to wait until the delivery to find out we were going to be blessed with another boy! Jackson and Zoey love their new brother and Jackson isn't too upset that we didn't name him "John Deer" afterall (Jackson's fascination with tractors is evident in everything right now).

The delivery went really well. We got checked into the hospital around 5pm. Dr. Holmes broke my water at 5:30 pm. and Eli was born at 7:04. I decided to do it all naturally this time around. Many women may think I'm crazy, but it's just something I wanted to do. Luckily, my deliveries are short enough that it was doable, I don't know if I could handle anything longer! By the time I was dilated enough and ready to push, I began to question my strength and resolve to go through with it! But too late to make any changes at that point! One Contraction later, Eli was born and peeing all over the place! Brian got to make the announcement and it was just an exciting feeling in the room.

Tuesday afternoon we got to go home together as a family (I can't believe we are a party of 5 now), and that was also a wonderful feeling. I needed my rest and recovery at the hospital, but going home always feels so good. I'm glad to be on the recovering end (technically I'd still be pregnant today)! Leave it to the brutal honesty of a toddler though, Jackson asked me the day I got home from the hospital: "Mommy, why did you put that baby back in your tummy?" Even post-pardum hormones in tow, I found that one funny!

We are still adjusting to our new life and routine. I have had lots and lots of help the past few days which I really appreciate! It seems like the more children involved in the picture, the more help that is needed getting my feet back on the ground. Running errands, taking Jackson to pre-school, meals, laundry, watching the kids so I can sleep....it's all so appreciated. I'm looking forward to finding a new routine to slip into, but for now I feel so overwhelmed with the idea of having to do it all myself. Luckily I haven't had to yet, and I can slip into that new routine slowly. I feel so blessed to have so much help nearby.

Eli is changing so fast already. I love his little cheeks. At our last pre-natal visit, I asked to get another ultra sound so I could anticipate the size of the baby. Dr. Holmes snapped a shot of his face while he was in the uterus, and his cheeks were so prominant! He has long finger-like toes, long fingers and big hands, very little hair, and a very mellow personality so far. He loves being by people, being held and hearing a heartbeat next to him. It has taken a few days to get him to sleep in his crib. Until yesterday he would only sleep if he was being held...

He's so cute, so loved, and we are so blessed to have in in our home! I look at his tiny body in my arms while I'm nursing him and am amazed at his perfection. It amazes me that such a wonderful and complete being can grow inside of me. It's so wonderful to have the presence of someone so fresh from heaven in our home. Welcome Eli- we love you!